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class="alignright size-full wp-image-6077" style="border-style: initial; border-color: initial; border-width: 0px; margin: 7px; float: right;" title="12 Days of Ask Six Minutes" src="http://sixminutes.dlugan.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/12-days-ask-six-minutes.png" alt="" width="300" height="243" /><p>Several readers sent in questions related to impromptu speeches, including Matthias K.:</p><blockquote><p>I&#8217;m pretty comfortable when I have days or even weeks to prepare a speech, but I REALLY struggle when I&#8217;m asked to speak at a moment&#8217;s notice. Do you have any tips for impromptu speaking?</p></blockquote><p>In this article, you&#8217;ll find a set of tips that will make you shine the next time you are asked to speak on the spur of the moment.</p><h2>Impromptu Speech Scenarios</h2><p>Impromptu speaking may not be as glamorous as prepared speaking, but it is an equally vital skill simply because there are so many scenarios where you find yourself speaking without more than a few moments of preparation. It&#8217;s no surprise that &#8220;impromptu speaking sessions&#8221; are found within <a
title="Toastmasters: Who? What? When? Where? Why? How?" href="http://sixminutes.dlugan.com/toastmasters-who-what-when-where-why-how/">Toastmasters meetings</a>, college communications courses, and public speaking seminars.</p><p>Consider just a few situations where you find yourself speaking off the cuff:</p><ul><li>The<strong> scheduled speaker is unavailable</strong> (or late), and you&#8217;ve been asked to fill in.</li><li>You are<strong> sitting on a panel</strong> answering questions from the audience.</li><li>You are fielding <strong>questions after your own talk</strong> (yes, your Q&amp;A session is impromptu speaking)</li><li>You are <strong>being interviewed</strong> on television, radio, webinar, or telephone.</li><li>You are invited (at the last moment) to<strong> say a few words at a company gathering</strong></li><li>You are asked to provide a<strong> brief status report for your project</strong> at a department meeting</li><li>You are motivated to<strong> join the debate</strong> at the parent association meeting for your child&#8217;s school.</li><li>You decide to <strong>give an unplanned toast</strong> at an event with family or friends.</li></ul><p>It&#8217;s also worth noting the irony that the better you are at giving prepared speeches, the more often you will be invited to speak with no time for preparation at all. Your friends and colleagues will recognize your speaking skill, and when they need &#8220;someone&#8221; to say a few words&#8230; you&#8217;ll be that someone!</p><h2>Winning Strategies for Impromptu Speeches</h2><p>Although you may only have a few seconds to prepare for any particular impromptu situation, you certainly can prepare yourself to be ready when called upon.</p><p>Here are a few strategies you can use:</p><p><strong>Anticipate situations where you may be called upon to speak.</strong> For example, if you are attending an engagement party for a close friend or family member, there&#8217;s a reasonable chance that you might be asked to speak. Similarly, if one of your close colleagues is scheduled to speak (e.g. your boss, your peer, or your report), it&#8217;s also reasonable to assume that you will find yourself speaking. As you head to the event, do a few mental exercises, trying to guess what you might be asked to speak about, and how you would respond. Even if your guess isn&#8217;t accurate, it&#8217;s amazing how those prior thoughts will help you think on your feet when you <em>are</em> asked to speak.</p><p><strong>Wrap your response around a simple template, or framework.</strong> If you practice this a few times, you will find that your mini-speeches are much more polished and coherent. A few easy frameworks include:</p><ol><li><strong>P.R.E.P. (Point. Reason. Example. Point)</strong> &#8211; Start off by clearly stating your point. Share the primary reason (or reasons, if you have more time). Then, share an example (preferably in story form) where your main point or reason is supported. Finally, conclude by summarizing your central point again. The template works well in many situations, and is easily adapted.</li><li><strong>Issue, Pros vs. Cons, Conclusions</strong> - Start off by framing the issue. Talk about the benefits, and then talk about the drawbacks. Conclude with your recommendation.</li><li><strong>5W</strong> &#8211; In this pattern, you cover your topic by addressing the Who, What, When, Where, and Why elements. For example, if you&#8217;ve been asked to speak briefly about a fundraising initiative, you could talk about [1] <em>who</em> started it, and <em>who</em> is involved now; [2] <em>what</em> the goals are; [3] <em>when</em> it started, and the schedule for the future; [4] <em>where</em> does it take place; and [5] <em>why</em> are you involved. This template works nicely, largely because the &#8220;why?&#8221; comes last, because this is often the most critical information.</li></ol><div
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style='background: #eeeeee; padding: 6px;'>Dazzle your audience by <a
href="http://sixminutes.dlugan.com/leading-the-perfect-qa/">leading the perfect Q&amp;A session</a>.</div></div><p><strong>Turn your impromptu session into a Q&amp;A session.</strong> In situations where you are asked to fill in when the schedule speaker is absent, it may not be wise to launch into a 45 minute impromptu speech. Even the most accomplished speakers are prone to meander in that situation. Instead, reframe the session as a Q&amp;A session, which breaks it up into a series of very small impromptu speeches that are probably easier for you to answer individually. Plus, the content comes directly from the audience, so you are guaranteed to deliver what they are seeking.</p><p><strong>Use personal stories.</strong> Storytelling is an essential skill for prepared speaking, but it is equally useful for impromptu speaking as well. Stories are emotional, real, and interesting. If you stick to personal stories, you&#8217;ll find that it is much easier to speak (even without preparation) because the events happened to you.</p><p><strong>Avoid the tendency to go on, and on, and on.</strong> Craft a coherent message, and then be quiet. Rambling on will only weaken your overall speech. If you must fill more time, shift into a Q&amp;A.</p><p><strong>Go easy on yourself.</strong> We all want to speak perfectly every time, but demanding perfection from yourself in an impromptu speech is setting the bar too high. The audience (probably) recognizes that you&#8217;ve been thrown in at the last minute, and they will understand.</p><h2>Your Turn: What&#8217;s Your Opinion?</h2><p>Do you have any proven strategies for mastering the impromptu speech?</p><p>Please share <a
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isPermaLink="false">http://sixminutes.dlugan.com/?p=1014</guid> <description><![CDATA[Are you facing an important interview? Would you like to go to your interview totally prepared and feeling like a well-toned athlete ready to win the championship? Being interviewed for a job or by the media can generate the same tension and anxiety as public speaking does for many people. In this article, you will [...]]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img
class="alignright size-full wp-image-1015" style="border: 1px solid black; margin: 7px; float: right;" title="Interview Skills" src="http://sixminutes.dlugan.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/11/interview-skills.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" /></p><p><em></em></p><p>Are you facing an important <strong>interview</strong>?</p><p>Would you like to go to your interview totally prepared and feeling like a well-toned athlete ready to win the championship?</p><p>Being interviewed for a job or by the media can generate <strong>the same tension and anxiety as public speaking</strong> does for many people.</p><p>In this article, you will learn to take on interviewing like an athlete preparing for the championship. You will understand how to prepare yourself to be transparent for interviews so that you can share yourself, your ideas and your expertise <em>authentically</em>.</p><p>Think about the word <em>interview</em>.  Break it into syllables: in-ter-view. To be interviewed means to let someone see in <em>to</em> you, and that will feel vulnerable. So, like an athlete, you must prepare, not only to answer questions, but to open yourself to be transparent and to manage the physical tensions and emotional anxieties that happen when you are being evaluated or questioned.</p><p>I will outline nine steps for conquering your nerves and communicating clearly that I have both taught my clients who were preparing to interview and used successfully myself.</p><p>These steps will be divided into three sections</p><ol><li>Changing the way you think about the interview process</li><li>Preparing to share your experience and expertise</li><li>Handling the bodily-felt tension and anxiety</li></ol><h2>How to Think about the Interview</h2><h3>1. Be there to help.</h3><p>Don&#8217;t think about an interview as an audition or test.  Thinking so puts you in the position of being judged, which will trigger tension and anxiety.  Instead, think about your interview as an opportunity to help the interviewer.</p><p>Remember that the interviewer need help.  He is looking for someone to hire because his company needs someone to help them be successful.  So, think in terms of helping the interviewer find out how you can help his company.  If you are being interviewed by the media, think about helping the reporter and his listeners understand something that you know about.</p><h3>2. Detach from the outcome.</h3><p>Let go of it having to be a certain way. Evaluate your expectations and really look at what you think needs to happen in the interview.  Anytime you have to have it be a certain way, you will be stressed.</p><p>So, evaluate what you are pressing to have happen and then let it go.  Be willing for it not to happen the way you want it.  This puts you in neutral energy where you can feel open to more possibilities.  Turn your results over to a higher power and ask that the outcome be for the highest good of all concerned.</p><h2>Prepare to Answer Questions</h2><h3>3. Determine likely interview questions.</h3><p>List on paper the questions that your interviewer will most likely ask you to answer. Be sure to include the really hard interview questions that you are afraid to answer.  And also include, &#8220;Tell me about yourself.&#8221;</p><h3>4. Write and practice your answers.</h3><p>For each of the questions, write your answers on paper.</p><p>Then, practice them aloud until you can share your answers fluidly. You may be tempted to skip the practice, but don&#8217;t.  Vocal expression is different from the thought process.  You must speak your answers out loud for fluid expression.</p><h3>5. Decide how to sell yourself.</h3><p>Next, list on paper the important points that you want to communicate to the interviewer about your background, abilities, qualities, experience and expertise.</p><h3>6. Illustrate key points with stories.</h3><p>For each important point you want to make, write down the things you want to share and an example (story) that backs up the point.</p><p>For instance, if you say you managed a team effectively, tell a story about a challenging situation that happened that proves you managed the team well. Then, practice sharing your points and stories aloud until you can speak them fluidly.</p><h2>Handling Tension and Anxiety</h2><h3>7. Warm up your body.</h3><p>Before you go to your interview, do enough physical exercise so that your body is loose and flowing. Make sure you stretch fully and that you elevate your heart rate so that blood is pumping.</p><p>Most people don&#8217;t realize how much physical tension impairs their ability to communicate freely. Actors and athletes know the power of warming up. You should too.</p><h3>8. Ground yourself in your body.</h3><p>Get out of your head and into your body. 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href="http://www.self-expression.com/what_is_stagefright.shtml">performance and presentation anxiety</a> I know.</p><h3>9. Breathe.</h3><p>Really. Breathe. After you ground yourself, take deep breaths, fast breaths, and slow breaths until you relax. Breathing helps your brain oxygenate and relaxes your body. Focus on breathing for 10 minutes an hour before your interview.</p><p>When you have finished these steps, you will feel ready to interview.  Instead of feeling dread, you will be eager to get to the interview so you can share yourself. You will feel like an athlete who is ready to take on the current world champion.</p><table
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